Friday, 6 September 2013

Who’s English…I know I am...are you?




So the other day Vinny Jones ( can’t believe he’s the reason I’m posting this ) says that he can’t recognise England,  it’s all diluted, if you blindfolded someone landed them at a national airport they wouldn’t know which country they were in blahh bllah….I guess he’s trying to say England is losing its identity….Perhaps… Let’s take Vinny Jones for a second, born in Watford, played for Wimbledon (fair enough) represented Wales at International Level, is an expat or immigrant (depending on if he comes back or not) living in USA and has the cheek to have a pop at immigrants in England?

Have  a look at this:


The link shows a list of the Indigenous people for every continent and country. Nick Griffin wants England for the ‘indigenous’ people of England…they are who exactly? What is a true British or English person? Apparently the EDL, BNP and probably UKIP lot will say it’s a white fella in a bowler hat, carrying a newspaper, drinking tea and having a roast for dinner.  But essentially white people didn’t just spring up in parts of Britain one morning; they had to have come from somewhere right?  So let’s see what good old Wiki has to say about invasions of Britain:


So we have the following invasions:

Roman
Germanic / Anglo Saxon
Viking
Danish
French

A lot of foreigners coming over here taking our land it seems? Lots of invasions, people mixing, living together, building a life a town, city etc etc and this is how things were and have been (Sounds Familiar doesn't it) I won’t go into race and colour here but most of these invaders were white so it stands to reason that the natives that Vinny Jones or EDL/BNP/UKIP goes on about would be white. However lets pin down on effect, people came from other countries and settled here, and continued to live here. I’m sure the average Joe Bloggs British guy could trace his roots back to one of the list above, so he’s not English as such he’s probably German or Roman but not 'Indigenous' English…ahhh but he’s white so it’s ok he’s English really we won’t go too far back that will just confuse stuff let’s just call him English coz he looks it. Here’s a look at the history of the People of Britain :


Some quotes that stick out for me; "Throughout recorded history the island has consisted of multiple cultural groups and identities" and "...in reality Britain has always been home to multiple peoples" food for thought I think.

Let’s shift forward a good chunk to the 1930’s/50’s/70’s and present day. People from the Caribbean, Africa, India, far east all came over to the England, probably didn’t invade like the Romans/ Anglo Saxons/ Vikings etc did but came in search of work mainly. Britain ruled the world and allowed all those that they rules to have a British passport, thus allowing them to come here and live and work. I was in a shop the other day and a shop attendant was doing a tax return for a relative, he didn’t understand how a guy living abroad could have a British passport. That shop attendant probably didn’t go to school much or know how the commonwealth works…he’s the future!... I digress!

So…yes…loads of foreigners came over just like before, lived here and opened shops, worked on train platforms, worked as porters in hospital, build houses and some even were doctors and nurses...they eventually had kids who were born here. Those kids became British. That’s how it worked for them and that's how it worked for those descendants of the Romans/ Anglo Saxons/ Vikings etc the difference is the kids born to Indians or African were a different colour so distinguishable as “not from round here”

The problem about being British or English is that we don’t really have that national pride thing going on very well..we aren’t flag wavers and don’t buy British products exclusively we like the sound of being British but are happy to buy foreign products and eat foreign food. If you think of the St George’s Cross you think of EDL/BNP…..it s a shame because that’s a symbol of England, if I wear an England football shirt am I suddenly classed a racist? No…but if you see a white shaven headed guy with tattoo’s wearing a St George's Cross T Shirt for example, the brown fella walking the street near him would assume he’s EDL/BNP without being none the wiser. It works both ways you see, everyone gets judged.


See the thing is for me, I was born here, my parents came to London from Kenya in the mid 70’s they worked hard, paid their taxes, all their bills on time bought a house and had me and my sister. We in turn went to school here, got an education, fell in love with football and queuing and moaning about the weather. I call myself British and English I support England at sporting events, England gave me everything I have today, no other country did so I’m proud to be English. However stand me next to those friendly guys from the BNP/EDL/UKIP and suddenly I’m not English to them. I wasn’t English to the bullies I put up with through most of the 80’s and I couldn’t understand why, I was born here and lived here just like them, I only looked a different colour and had long hair. Through the education England gave me I learnt that they too like me have ancestors that came from foreign countries so I thought to myself what's the bloody problem.  In school I learnt about the Harvest celebrations, sang Christian hymns and at home we celebrate Christmas. I was brought up to appreciate other people’s customs and faiths without losing sight of my own. I like that I did that, I have diversity now, I’m British/English too and maybe I’m the face of Britain as it is today? Maybe the face of Britain is a mixture of all sorts, just as it was when all those invasions happened. I’m just like the ‘indigenous’ people of England but a good few hundred years behind them, they’ve had their ancestors come from abroad and settle here and now are lots of generations in, in the claim to being English or British. The Royal family are German, Brits that go abroad are expats but people that come to Britain are called immigrants. I know an ex pat is someone that lives abroad but hasn’t fully immigrated just there for work but tell that to the large “expat” community in Spain…they haven’t come back here? It’s ok when the shoe is on the other foot it seems. They don’t see it and until they and the likes of Vinny Jones do we will always have this issue about immigration and who is in fact British. 

This is an interesting link to a question asked about “what does it mean to be British to you?”


Some varying opinions you’d agree but interesting to note that there is a sense of pride in all those answers. The thing is people nowadays travel all over and the world, choose to live all over and it’s a global community, if no one moved around we’d all be ignorant of each other cultures and ways of life…oh wait!

Wednesday, 4 September 2013

Wear a Pugh (turban) you know you can if you want :)


I was sat there the other day thinking about how many Sikh’s there might be in the world and if the population of Sikh’s as a whole is evolving. The other thought that came into my mind was how brilliant it is that when you as men you see a fellow Sikh man in the street, you acknowledge each other with that inward nod and go about you daily business. (If you don’t do the Singh nod when you see another Sikh guy then you should start!) So anyway…this acknowledgement of a fellow Sikh male is only able to happen if I know the guy opposite me is a Singh….how do I know this.. He’s wearing  pugh (turban) and a Sikh style turban, not an Arabic turban, not the type western ladies used to wear but a pugh, tied in a way where we know , yeah he’s a Singh. Without this pugh I have no exact idea if they guy is Sikh or not… that surely wasn’t the plan was it?

Let me explain…the pugh is a Sikh’s identity first and foremost, it’s his crown on his head and (loosely paraphrased by me) in and amongst 100,000 men a Sikh is recognisable by his pugh.


How hard is it to tie a pugh, let’s see in the ‘relaxed’ look at it by JusReign:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i6gBwv4fjDU Not difficult is it? Takes me about 5-7 minutes a day.


So why are there Singh's out there not wearing a pugh? It bothers me…our guru’s and warriors like Baba Deep Singh sacrificed their lives so our identity would remain in tact, forced conversions by cutting a Singh's hair in those days was a way of breaking down a Sikh identity. Our Guru’s and warriors fought against it. So today we can continue to be called Sikhs.

So why are some guys walking around and not wearing a pugh? To look cool? To look attractive? To blend in so they didn’t get bullied or picked on? I was born in the 70’s lived through bullying and fights over my hair through the 80’s, I’m proud I didn’t succumb to the pressure of thinking “ to hell with it, its easier to cut my hair” I have my parents support to thank for that and the other 2 Singh’s in my primary school for whom we became a bit of a support group for each other. Our guru’s certainly didn’t think “ah sod it…why fight and lose our families in war, lets all just cut our hair and forget it”


Going back to it then? Why not wear  a pugh if you’re Sikh, this outlines why, to the letter of the law (so to speak) 4



There's a line in that link about why do some Sikh’s not wear a pugh, it ends with Rather than getting angry, or creating negative energy by judging them, simply bless them and pray that by the Grace of God and Guru some day they will understand who they are” Perhaps…but for me it’s not a faith issue it’s an issue about identity. Surely as a Sikh community we should all do the basics right? We all wear a kara don’t we? (Steel bangle) so why not a pugh? I go back to my point maybe its so they don’t get bullied, can look attractive and cool (really?) or cant be bothered with the hassle? Well as I said before it takes me 5-7 minutes. There is that issue about attractiveness I think, when I was being introduced to girls for marriage a few said they didn’t want to marry a guy with a pugh…I found that abusrd and totally ridiculous. Vanity is such a poor excuse. If a girls thinking that she doesn’t like a guy with a pugh, she will marry one with out, if she has a son he will grow up not keeping his hair and the dilution of Sikh identity will continue. Why should this be the case?

Let’s look at it another way…its ok for guys to go around singing the praises of Baba Deep Singh, for example, those guys probably do it because he was a warrior so they feel that he is a strong role model, yes he is…but he also wore a pugh. If he is a role model then be like him, no point being a warrior in your own mind but you can’t be strong enough to tie a pugh daily. Check out all these men who were leaders, warriors and absolute legends.  I am in awe of their achievements:


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hari_Singh_Nalwa - If you don’t know who he is, read and feel humble

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Banda_Singh_Bahadur - Guru Gobind Singh Ji’s commander in chief

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ranjit_Singh - The Founder of the Sikh Empire


Mesmerising right? Strong Role Models don’t you think? Wore a pugh you know!
So many bhangra videos of singh walking around with bulging muscles, pushing the sikh warrior mentality, the strength and courage of Sikhs but so many of those don’t wear the basic element of being a singh, a pugh. Why? Because it doesn’t look cool? Silly argument. Why because women won’t find you attractive? Then you don’t need those sorts of women to give you attention (by the way plenty women have complimented me on wearing a turban and keeping my hair, colleagues and friends mostly but they got it, , the vacuous vain ones you don’t really need in your life right? if they can’t respect you for who you are whats the point?)
A turbaned Singh can look attractive and stylish. You have to believe in it. Look at these Singh’s…they look pretty cool (even though some of them don’t grow their beard but that’s another blog for another day) http://www.singhstreetstyle.com/
 

In school and college I was often commended by teachers for wearing a turban, they knew the history behind it, I was once stopped in the Ritz Hotel and an old English fella looked at me and said “you’re sikh aren’t you, you are some of the most remarkable people I met while I was stationed in Punjab during the war” he had no clue who I was but saw my pugh. I got stopped at Seattle Airport, USA because they weren’t educated to know the difference between me and a terrorist, when they got over their initial standoffish behaviour I explained who and what I was and they actually wanted to know more. The most common thing I get asked by people who I meet for the first time “how long is your hair”, “Why  do you wear  a turban” and I take pride in answering those questions. We all should  right??

Look...in conclusion I just had a few thoughts on the issue and I thought I’d share…it irks me that a sikh guy cant take 5-7 maybe even 10 minutes of his day to tie a pugh and represent the Sikh community we are privileged to be part of. It’s all well and good saying you Sikh and being supportive of a community but if you can’t get the basics right, what’s the point? It’s not difficult and you will get more respect for it too.


To end with I’ll leave you with this link, read it, be proud in the knowledge that an American white guy wrote this about a turbaned Sikh:


Till next time

Tuesday, 3 September 2013

My thoughts on those that groom and who does it and why

Apologies if my words offend but been doing some more reading about child grooming cases and people grooming women for sexual gratification....The links below are a great read and show the crux of the matter. I read somewhere that of the figures of those caught grooming girls, the largest number were white men than any other other group....i guess thats plausible based on demographics and make up of the population. However we seem to see a recurring theme of those in the news/media and their agenda and who they target. As you probably read, i didn't watch that program last night but i am aware of what it showed and am aware that its content exists in the real world. I chose not to watch it simply because i dont want to watch such stuff at home. So back to my point about the recurring theme, it seems to be there more and more and its a small minority but a minority of muslim men who see it fit to groom vulnerable girls, and as its reported it seems to be anyone but their own. (before anyone starts shouting i shared this link so I'm well aware of how the media portrays various ethnic groups):

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/jul/22/how-racism-takes-root

This grooming is an agenda of warped and brainwashed minds to increase population and humiliate all others. I know other such predators are of other backgrounds too but this has to be brought to light.  Young girls need to be made aware of these predators and how they work. They target vulnerable girls and vulnerable minds. More security and knowledge is required and my advice to any girls is be aware, don't assume they care or have your best interests at heart. The way these men think and have been allowed to think/act is nothing new its been going on for decades and no one at a governmental level in any country seems to be doing enough to curb this. This shows how the media warps yet again and again there  is a recurring theme:

http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/the-oxford-child-sex-abuse-case-shows-how-the-media-talks-in-stereotypes-but-misses-the-big-picture-8622337.html

 Again its a small minority of men that do this and we need more from all communities to change their way of thinking and attitudes to women. This tribal thinking and "taking care of their own in their own way" has to change. I have muslim friends and i have grown up around muslim families...they aren't all bad but there is a minority that seem to be doing their utmost to create as much chaos and havoc as possible, see this link:

http://www.standpointmag.co.uk/node/3576/full                                                     

A friend told me once that India/Pakistan is the only country to have a swear word called Panchod (sister-fucker) that tells you all you need to know about the thinking of medieval minds and they need an education. The sad this is predators of all walks of like, of all cultures and backgrounds are common place, just look at the tv celebrities of the 80's being convicted on a practically weekly basis, we all need to raise alarms and not be oblivious to these things. Again apologies of my words offend but if we don't call it as we see it and upset the apple cart we will continue to assume that "it will be ok in the end"         

http://www.catholicherald.co.uk/commentandblogs/2013/05/15/the-oxford-asian-grooming-gang-were-not-in-fact-all-asian-but-they-were-all-muslim-is-this-a-problem-we-are-afraid-to-face/